I will test ride before I buy, but I couldn't imagine it being any sloppier than the Road Glide. I love that bike on the highway, but it leaves much to be desired in the city.
Some guys I ride with suggested the Gold Wing, but I can't bring myself to do it.
Stay with the HD until you absolutely have to make the jump to Jap speed.
The wings are sweet but they are.....well.....wings.