You seem to keep forgetting that Iraq was the one harboring these people. The government WE created after we destroyed their country. Even the government WE created wants us out and is bringing in Iranians and letting them attack our embassies.
[You're forgetting that the 'government' of Iraq had already turned to Iran to prop them up when it appeared we would shortly no longer be doing so. I would call your attention to the fact that a substantial number of Iraqis were celebrating the Soleimani barbecue in the streets in what was most certainly not an orchestrated event. He was an evil man reviled by those who did not wish to fall in line with his plans and were punished for doing so. Many Shia hated the man]
There will never be a time that you will be okay with. And it isn't tucking tail and running, it's leaving when we're no longer welcome in the country we rebuilt.
I see too many people failing to note the particular sore spot an Iranian instigated attack on our embassy would be, obviously Soleimani did