hornadylnl
Shooter
- Nov 19, 2008
- 21,505
- 63
I'll liken this to a church that I became a member of. I'm not real fond of church "membership" to begin with but the pastor was practically hounding us about it so we joined. Not 3 months later, the church split up. Again, I'm the last to hear anything that is going on.
There were a few people who attended that made their opinion known on how things should be run. Depending on what side you want to believe is who was right about how their opinions were handled. I don't know if the complainers were tactful, rude, or whatever. But all of this happened behind close doors and only those on the "inside" were privy to what was going on.
This was the start of the cancer that destroyed the church. These few people were more or less told that their opinions weren't welcome so they left. Friends of those who left wanted to know why and slowly, the story worked it's way around to the rest of the church. By the time the church split, I don't think most knew or cared which side was right. I was upset that as a member, all of this was going on without and knowledge of it. I believe the leadership of the church mishandled the situation. If they would have brought everything out into the open, everyone could have been involved and dealt with once and for all. Instead, it was a big secret and just grew like a cancer and bread nothing but mistrust in the leadership.
The cover up is always worse than the crime. I think the above is relevant to what is going on here. I like to know what is going on up front with honesty. If there is a problem, let me know about it. Don't let it fester for days, weeks, months, or years. By that time, the facts have all become clouded and I'm left to try to sort out those who are wrong or right.
There were a few people who attended that made their opinion known on how things should be run. Depending on what side you want to believe is who was right about how their opinions were handled. I don't know if the complainers were tactful, rude, or whatever. But all of this happened behind close doors and only those on the "inside" were privy to what was going on.
This was the start of the cancer that destroyed the church. These few people were more or less told that their opinions weren't welcome so they left. Friends of those who left wanted to know why and slowly, the story worked it's way around to the rest of the church. By the time the church split, I don't think most knew or cared which side was right. I was upset that as a member, all of this was going on without and knowledge of it. I believe the leadership of the church mishandled the situation. If they would have brought everything out into the open, everyone could have been involved and dealt with once and for all. Instead, it was a big secret and just grew like a cancer and bread nothing but mistrust in the leadership.
The cover up is always worse than the crime. I think the above is relevant to what is going on here. I like to know what is going on up front with honesty. If there is a problem, let me know about it. Don't let it fester for days, weeks, months, or years. By that time, the facts have all become clouded and I'm left to try to sort out those who are wrong or right.