While I take my relationship with God seriously,
One thing I don't take seriously in online forum arguments. Don't know what happened there, but I think some light-heartedness and stepping away if you feel yourself getting too wound up may avoid a lot of issues. The old self-effacing chuckle has probably saved more than a few bans.
I just don't get why people wear their religion/non-religion on their sleeves such that they give and take things personally.
Both Cathy and Ric will be missed. They both add to the conversation. But apparently they took too seriously what each other added to that conversation.