If it were up to me, we (she and I and the boys) would just come home after the funeral and nobody would be coming over. But she hasn't seen her mom and dad for a long time since they've moved to Florida, so I can't begrudge her wanting to have her family over. In the grand scheme of things, it's a pretty minor irritation. I'm just bitchin'.You are to kind my friend. seriously but thats just my humble opinion and my opinion and $2 will get you a cup of at the corner joint so take from it what you will.
Life is not one sided as CKW and I have learned. We both live here so any decisions made effect us both. We discuss anything of importance and try to keep each other informed but even then things slip throiugh