So I messed up with the girlfriend

[Ironjaw's-wife]

I'd love to hear more INGO women weigh in on this thread![/quote]


Well for one I have to ask if this is her typical behavior and if it is then, it's time to move on. It won't get any better imho...

 

[E5RANGER375]

I hope this was supposed to be in purple.

even if it wasnt, who cares

If a woman or a man for that matter wants to pay for sex ?(thats basicly what it is when you are 60 or older and have a 20 something gf or bf) in cases like that, I dont think there is any mistake by either party what each others intentions are.

 

[Benny]

even if it wasnt, who cares

If a woman or a man for that matter wants to pay for sex ?(thats basicly what it is when you are 60 or older and have a 20 something gf or bf) in cases like that, I dont think there is any mistake by either party what each others intentions are.

WHAT?!?!?!?!

Are you trying to say this wasn't true love?

 

[Zimm1001]

Run man run! If she is so self centered and narcissistic she can't be supportive of you when you need her then run. It will only get worse if you get married. Save yourself some grief and go find a girl that is willing to give and receive. Not just take!

 

[acase20]

I think people are assuming that she is always wanting attention...and if thats not the case its perfectly understandable for her to be upset you didnt even wish her a happy VD

 

[sepe]

Make plans with her and a day before, burn her parents house down. If she forgets about the plans to be with her family or make arrangements (up to you if the parents are home and barricaded in the house with phone lines cut) then you get a chance to show her how petty she is being right before you tell her to kick rocks.

 

[tom1025]

Make plans with her and a day before, burn her parents house down. If she forgets about the plans to be with her family or make arrangements (up to you if the parents are home and barricaded in the house with phone lines cut) then you get a chance to show her how petty she is being right before you tell her to kick rocks.

This has to be the best advice so far.

 

[Benny]

Make plans with her and a day before, burn her parents house down. If she forgets about the plans to be with her family or make arrangements (up to you if the parents are home and barricaded in the house with phone lines cut) then you get a chance to show her how petty she is being right before you tell her to kick rocks.

This seems reasonable enough, but to make it a completely accurate comparison he'll have to wait until next Valentines Day to do it.

Patience is a virtue.

 

[goinggreyfast]

I'd love to hear more INGO women weigh in on this thread!

We kinda did on my post. My wife said to "Ditch her"

 

[12many]

Fell last summer and shattered my patella into 19+ pieces. The ortho doc said I was lucky and all the pieces stayed close enough together to not require surgery. Can't imagine doing it when I'm elderly (close but not quite there) so I hope your Mom is doing well. Both of my parents have been gone for over 15 years. One of my kids just barely remembers my Mom, but they never got to see their grandpa. Take good care of your Mom and Dad and seriously reconsider your grilfriend (if you can call her a friend)

 

[ljadayton]

OK, as a female, I can say I've probably pulled stuff similar, but not quite as bad, to the OP's girlfriend. NOT that it was right to do that. IN fact, doing stuff like that helped kill my marriage in the long run. I wasn't raised with any type of Princess mentality. I was the son my dad wished my brother would've been. Out in the garage working on cars, doing all the home improvement projects, etc. My dad didn't make a big deal out of any holidays for my mom. V Day, their anniversary...might as well of not existed. I think, in my case, I had expectations for how MY relationship was going to be sooo different then my parents. And all I did was end up repeating some of the same mistakes. Only the OP can decide if this is normal for her and if she's worth it. Can she learn that that's not the right way to do things? Possibly. I did. However, I learned it too late.

 

[Rayne]

by the way, if you REALLY knew me, you know I would beat the holy **** out of any man I saw beating a woman. just saying.

^^^ If this is true then why make a joke about it? Why make it seem like just the opposite?

 

[Hiker1911]

Not a typical week, and you will pay for it-by treating her extra special until further notice, right?

 

[hornadylnl]

I've actually been kicking this idea around for a few weeks now. Going to the store and buying enough birthday, anniversary, and vd cards for the next 5 years. That way I don't have to waste a trip to walmart for each day. Would that make me an insensitive jerk?

 

[sepe]

I've actually been kicking this idea around for a few weeks now. Going to the store and buying enough birthday, anniversary, and vd cards for the next 5 years. That way I don't have to waste a trip to walmart for each day. Would that make me an insensitive jerk?

Nope, it would make you a hero because you remembered the important days and the hallmark holidays.

 

[tv1217]

What's she doing taking time out of doing laundry and making sandwiches to write e-mails?

 

[hornadylnl]

Nope, it would make you a hero because you remembered the important days and the hallmark holidays.

I'd still have to remember to pull one out of the stash for each day. That's the hard part.

 

[sepe]

Or you could just give a pile of cards and be like "Yup, I'm covered for the next 5 years."

 

[hornadylnl]

Or you could just give a pile of cards and be like "Yup, I'm covered for the next 5 years."

I like your style.

 

[Rookie]

I'd still have to remember to pull one out of the stash for each day. That's the hard part.

Give them all to her at once with a do not open until on each one