As a law enforcement officer, I can imagine that this priority prevents you from doing your job effectively. I think we all signed on to place the safety of the citizens of the United States of America above our own lives. If my #1 priority is going home at the end of shift, I will spend a lot of time at Starbucks and avoid any potentially dangerous situation that may arise that I am not required to tend to.
1) No, this priority keeps me from becoming complacent, and making poor decisions. I try to be as safe as I can be, not any less effective. I feel you owe it to not only yourself, but your family as well to do the same.
2) Sure, there are times in this job where you just gotta pray a little because there is no safe way to address a situation.
3) Good thing there is no Starbucks in town.....