Bunnykid68
Grandmaster
1. Poor, poor judgment on the father's part. If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, but your highly embarrassed daughter insists it's not a duck, don't shoot it just yet.
2. I don't care what kind of parent you think you are, you may just find a boy in her room. I know, because I've been that boy many times, and it was with lots of daughters that no one could ever imagine would do such a thing. Don't ever think your magnificent parenting skills can override the biological impulse in certain kids. Some kids are more sexual than others and the moral rules you've taught them all their life pale in that overwhelming moment. You may not like to think so, but it's true.
3. All of you with teenage sons, SHOW THEM THE ARTICLE. They need to know they're playing with fire.
4. Back to number one. If you find a boy in your teenage daughter's room and you weren't drawn there by screams (of fear, anyway) first assume - until vigorous interrogation proves otherwise - that your precious amazing virginal sweetheart of a pure-as-the-driven-snow daughter might just be a little freaky. Don't shoot him. Tell him to lie down on his stomach. He'll probably comply so quickly he might just punish himself worse than you could do it for him. They can actually break.
According to the info we have the guy had him at gun point and told him not to move, he moved anyway.