It all depends on who you ask.
I've heard the same said about VUPDblue, and DO3, and spasmo, and BoR, and . . . . . . .
I'll give you VUPDblue can be a bit of a Princess, but a meannie. I think not.
Spasmo is a never been anything other than a Lady to me...
BoR is a Gentleman...
DO3 is one of only 2 mods to give me an infraction...