Thanks for the kind offer but your 70 miles from meOP the .40 is a fine round. Some people complain that it has more recoil then 9mm or. 45. I can't disagree but it is certainly not an uncomfortable cartridge to shoot. The. 40 in a medium sized service pistol is a very versatile gun. What you are asking about would be the Glock 23 and Sig Sauer P229. Either of which I would be proud to carry. Depending on your location I have both a glock and sig you could try.