The Official Status Update Thead: Part 99 - Fight Club

[Birds Away]

Sadly you're right. I married one of them. Then I married another one who wasn't necessarily evil but was definitely misguided. I'm hoping this one turns out better Maybe there's a reason I didn't marry this one yet after all this time. I don't wanna f*** it up!!!

Well, if he isn't happy with you then he must just be very unhappy with himself.

 

[RedneckReject]

My ex-GF has started showing up again "jjust to hang out". What's up with that?

Just to hang out??? Or does other stuff happen when you "hang out"? Because I can almost guarantee that's what's on her mind. What her reason is I can't say. Maybe she's lonely. Maybe she wants to get back together. As I've said before, we, as women, have NO damn idea what we want

 

[Birds Away]

Well, she doesn't want to do "that", unfortunately. I had to help her write a request for a protective order against her most recent ex. What a nice friggin' guy I am.

 

[RedneckReject]

Well, if he isn't happy with you then he must just be very unhappy with himself.

Oh I believe he is. I just think he's scared to take that leap again. And to be honest I kind of am too. It works out for now. We're content with the way things are. If we decide to make if official later on then ok. If not then that's ok too. I won't push anything. I thought about it when I was pregnant with our first girl, but then I thought better of it. I don't want to wonder for the rest of my life whether our marriage was because of a child or because that's what we wanted. I'm good with just being the girlfriend for now

 

[RedneckReject]

Well, she doesn't want to do "that", unfortunately. I had to help her write a request for a protective order against her most recent ex. What a nice friggin' guy I am.

Hmmmm. Do you think she's using you to get something she wants?

 

[Birds Away]

Oh I believe he is. I just think he's scared to take that leap again. And to be honest I kind of am too. It works out for now. We're content with the way things are. If we decide to make if official later on then ok. If not then that's ok too. I won't push anything. I thought about it when I was pregnant with our first girl, but then I thought better of it. I don't want to wonder for the rest of my life whether our marriage was because of a child or because that's what we wanted. I'm good with just being the girlfriend for now

Sounds like the right decision to me.

 

[GLOCKMAN23C]

Tuesday mornin' drive thru...

 

[RedneckReject]

Sounds like the right decision to me.

That's pretty much what I'm thinking! Just go with the flow. If it feels right then do it. Otherwise leave it alone

 

[RedneckReject]

Tuesday mornin' drive thru...

Hello good sir!!!

 

[Birds Away]

Hmmmm. Do you think she's using you to get something she wants?

I don't know what that would be. Maybe she just feels safe here. She says she isn't interested in "fun" with anyone for a long time. Definitely out of character for her. I really can't figure it out. She works all week and I don't hear from her then she shows up Saturday morning and spends most of the day and again on Sunday.

 

[RedneckReject]

I don't know what that would be. Maybe she just feels safe here. She says she isn't interested in "fun" with anyone for a long time. Definitely out of character for her. I really can't figure it out. She works all week and I don't hear from her then she shows up Saturday morning and spends most of the day and again on Sunday.

It could very well be a safety thing. We like to retreat to where we feel comfortable (in most cases). Even as bad ass as I am () I need some security now and again

 

[GLOCKMAN23C]

Mornin' RnR! I've looked through every book I can think of, no joy on the switch, unless you want to try an universal and some re-wiring.

 

[Birds Away]

I think she is very conflicted. Wants to be with me, knows it wouldn't last, doesn't want to hurt me. This is her way, maybe, of insulating both of us and still spending time together. Best I can figure out. Probably way off base.

 

[RedneckReject]

Mornin' RnR! I've looked through every book I can think of, no joy on the switch, unless you want to try an universal and some re-wiring.

I've been in contact with Ansor. 75 euros to get it here!!!! I still want to know how the hell it ended up in my Buick!!!

 

[RedneckReject]

I think she is very conflicted. Wants to be with me, knows it wouldn't last, doesn't want to hurt me. This is her way, maybe, of insulating both of us and still spending time together. Best I can figure out. Probably way off base.

Also a possibility. That's the problem with being female. Not only do you not know what you want, you don't know what any other woman wants either. I can read men like a book. Women? No way

 

[GLOCKMAN23C]

The best I can come up with, its an aftermarket sunroof.

 

[Birds Away]

Well, thanks for the chat. Maybe I stumbled onto some truth here. Gotta go get ready for work. Hope you have a wonderful day and thanks for listening.

 

[RedneckReject]

Well, thanks for the chat. Maybe I stumbled onto some truth here. Gotta go get ready for work. Hope you have a wonderful day and thanks for listening.

Anytime, BA. We all need an ear from time to time. Have a great day

 

[RedneckReject]

The best I can come up with, its an aftermarket sunroof.

No idea. It just baffles me that a switch made by a company who does switches for Maserati and Alfa Romeo and such gets into a Buick

 

[GLOCKMAN23C]

BA & RnR have a great day! Time to get ready for work....