One more analogy, then I'm out.
Used car salesman says: "You should really buy this car. It will really make you look cool."
Customer says: "I don't think I should take your word for this because you're clearly trying to sell me something."
Stranger wanders over: "You're telling me that no one gets to say whether you look cool or not unless you approve of them?"
Used car salesman says: "You should really buy this car. It will really make you look cool."
Customer says: "I don't think I should take your word for this because you're clearly trying to sell me something."
Stranger wanders over: "You're telling me that no one gets to say whether you look cool or not unless you approve of them?"