Blue Tile Spook
Master
Don't get ahead of yourself and God. I think that, for now, your answer is in the words quoted. You have to let God work on the hearts of minds of the people that brought this to the attention of your elders. If they choose to come to you and explain to you why they feel that you do not have a right and duty to protect your wife, they may learn something about themselves in the discussion with you.After a long thought, I answered, "yes; under one condition..."
"That my accusers personally come and ask me to deny my very right to defend my wife and loved ones from violence."
I congratulate you on not getting mad. That is a wonderful way to allow them to see the situation from your eyes. +1 IBTL!