The one thing i have seen in how every one seems to talk about Russia's military is that everyone takes them so lightly just because they are not the huge nation they became after WWII. At the same time you are talking about a nation that in WWII not only held Germany at bay but pushed them back hard. even thought they were lacking resources like an ample supply of weapons and trained solders. They were only giving every other person a out dated rifle (and by out dated I mean not top of the line. though this rifle is still used today) and the men in between the guys with rifles ammo. Now they do not lack weapons. And true they have lost 13 plans but what kind is the real question. The newest MIG is more than a (equal) match for the F-16 and F-15 fighters we have in the air right now. And are we better trained I would say most likely but going toe to toe with a nation that could make a larger army on the ground (note I am saying ground troops) well trained or not is not the wisest of choices. Try to recall what Russia can do on the ground even against a far superior force (in training and technology). Also I would not call the Cuban Missile Crisis a show of weakness on Russia’s part that was a well played bluff for us and Russia nor us wanted to test this bluff. (and yes I do mean bluff) Russia nor us wanted to have to actually use our ICBM’s. because we all knew the end result. So should we help with training I can see this been something we could do. But money we simply can not with the instability of our economy. And as for going toe to toe with then that’s just saying lets start another world war.
I don't think it's that anyone is taking Russia's forces lightly. I think that it is because of their (the government, not the people) violent and evil intentions to attack weaker nations and "conquer" lands that they once held - and lost, and push their agenda to other nations that begs the need to stop them (Putin). They have already been encouraged by the failure of SOMEONE to step in and help Georgia. They have just gotten bolder and are making even more threats (to bomb Poland) for signing the agreement for the anti-missle equipment. The "bully" is getting out of hand.
Maybe there won't be a third world war if we don't assist the victimized counties, but, I believe that is what Russia is moving towards - even without our involvement. They see us as weak, tired, and too strung out to be able to stop them alone. Plus, they are counting on the American public demanding that our government stay out so that they may proceed unobstructed. They are counting on us to help them in their quest. (They watch the news also.) They are counting on the "soft" American's desire for a carefree pampered lifestyle to pressure our government to stay out of the fight.