I have enjoyed people telling you what you should buy, instead of giving you suggestions that fit your stated wishes ... . If you can find a used one, a S&W 3913 is a very nice gun, though the hammers are bobbed so you can't cock it for the first shot if you wish.
Yeah, sort of one of those threads.
FWIW, I've heard of folks replacing the 3913 hammers. A 5906 hammer can be made to work from what I've heard (I've never actually done it myself). An older generation S&W is a good idea. I hadn't gotten that far in my thought process yet!