Honestly no i have not had a 1 on 1 with him (probably just now over it enough to do so) i might go this route. Also i think your right he does not care for me too much we are polar opposite's.
As mentioned, there are rules to be followed when men discuss these issues. If he was drinking he should curtail this activity when around family. This is why my first FIL ended up on his butt more than once. Drunk and running his pie hole.
If you were not setting a bad tone or overwhelming the gathering it sounds as he is a pompous controlling A$$ hat. JMHO
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