How does your mother in law feel about the way he treated you? Does she care? Does she have a say in how the household is run?
How does your mother in law feel about the way he treated you? Does she care? Does she have a say in how the household is run?
My inlaws are part of the Free Stuff Army. I dont have respect for them or care for them in general. I put up with them because I love my wife who is a world apart from the rest of her family. They live about 20 minutes away and I see them 3 or 4 times a year. I can do that for her.
I don't necessarily disagree with this, but would just say that there are different ways to relieve the pressure.In my experience going back is like increasing the pressure of a pipe bomb, eventually it's going to blow, the more pressure built up the worse it will be.
How does your mother in law feel about the way he treated you? Does she care? Does she have a say in how the household is run?
Often a powerful and useful "back door" to reason..
See now that's funny I think this is the best answer yet!Two can play that game.....
Your house, your rules. Anti gun father in law can't come to your house unless he brings you a box of ammo, every time.
Try not talking about guns and probably politics in general. Serving time with loathsome inlaws is the price of being married. But if the father and law and others want you to curtail your views while they continue spouting off about the greatness of the left and evils of conservatism, then F them, all bets are off.
The smart, civilized decision would be to then gather your family and leave if your inlaws decide they want to badger you. My decision would be to give back everything they bring at you and let the drama fall where it may.
Men in their sixties that are ignorant enough to still cling to the follies of liberalism, as far as I'm concerned, are not worthy of your respect and deserving of little more than contempt. You should, because you owe it to your wife, try and take the high road and be the better man. But that doesn't mean you have to surrender your balls at your father in laws' doorstep. Play nice . . . but only as long as they do the same. And, if you have to, unload your verbal barrels and don't return once you've said your final peace with the fools. Give them a shot, but if it falls through then don't go back. It will cause problems with the wife, but you will have to make her understand that as a man you can't be expected to take crap and not give it back.
You picked ONE wrong letter. Want to guess which one....