at the end of the day I have to deal with myself, and care very little for that which is legal, only what is write and what is wrong. For a quick and dirty explanation of that think," no victim, no crime" I fully understand the difference between what is and what should be, and do work to make those line up more closely.
Please...The no victim, no crime theory simply displaces societal morality norms for individual gain. When in fact, there are victims in nearly every circumstance. What makes a civilized society truly civilized? It isn't complete liberty as many civilized countries around the world show daily. It is the ability to be able to live together on a general basis under a certain set of standards accepted by the public.
Curious though, what profession do you have that puts you into direct contact with law enforcement regularly?