I understand your frustration, only I hope that people channel that frustration into motivation join the club. In order to change the attitude of a club, they need people to join and make changes from the inside. Just avoiding membership at an otherwise good club is going to continue to allow them to follow the status quo.
There you go! At one time I felt the Illinois State Rifle Association, was nothing but a good old boy network, care nothing unless you shoot high power or trap with high dollar guns. This changed when people started joining and making it known our interest was to advance CCW in Illinois. To their credit this is now a priority and we are getting closer every year. To institute change in an orginations goals you must be a member to have influence. Jim.