Have you ever heard of Stockholm Syndrome? Government regulation is not what made our nation great. The fact that you think it is responsible for all of the good things that we have is quite troubling.
I don't believe that government oversight is responsible for all of the good things that we have, and I don't believe in the mindset that it should. I obviously wouldn't be a devout and creative prepper or the owner of so many self-defense guns if I did. If there was a disaster in my area, believe me a relief center would be the last place that I'd want to be; don't need it, don't want it.
One thing I am sure of is that, to a certain extent, that mindset is apparently genetically hardwired into more people than not, and I see it as an inevitable outcome when large numbers of people, who have the ability to decide which rules that they want live together in close proximity.