... I have never met the guy but I didn't get the impression he runs around pointing guns at everything...
I have... And he doesn't.
But he claims he does, in writing on INGO.
The gent is a poor representation of gun owners, especially INGO, much less the other places/organizations he represents. A terrible poor example set for those who are yet to understand standard firearm safety rules.
For all we know the reason the the person in the OP was shot was because the shooter followed such poor examples.