What I am saying is there is a time and place for everything and if I have to explain to people where is the proper place to OC I am beating a dead horse. Like I have said many times just because you can doesn't mean you should. Because you are in a smoking allowed restaurant that does not give you the right to blow smoke in the face of the person at the table next to you.
The thing is you are not explaining anything. You are declaring ex cathedra. Sorry, but just because you think it so doesn't make it so.
And what you are talking about isn't the equivalent of blowing smoke in someone's face. It's the equivalent of not smoking, even though it's allowed, because the folk at the next table over might be offended by someone smoking.