Indeed. There is good in it. However, stating that it is a major factor in attraction is BS pure and simple.
Also, the church has pushed the "servant-leader" narrative so hard and far for so long, that they overextended it to make it a "sacrifice everything for the women." They turned women into vases and demanded that men be bubble wrap.
I don't disagree. Being a Southern Baptist, I frequently hear the old saying: "If momma ain't happy, nobody's happy"....ha, ha, ha....heresy.