I absolutely agree. 100%
I'm just making the point that it isn't unreasonable that homosexuals might find aspects of Religious life more appealing than lay life, and over time it should't be unexpected to see a community of homosexuals congeal within Religious life. The funny thing about that is that it lends itself to a sort of self-feeding cycle...once the community has reached a certain size and stability it cannot help but attract the attention of gays more broadly, where religion isn't the driving force behind that attraction.
Like you said. It's a distraction from the Vocation, and a choice. We expect those we put into leadership roles to make better choices. I agree.
I've read more than one article that asserts this is exactly what has happened. One article, I remember the words the catholic church has a homosexual problem in it priesthood. And not in a good way.