Am I THAT bad at math????

[jennybird]

What came first, the chicken or the egg? I'm a firm believer that if a woman keeps a man well fed and happy in the bedroom, every time she says jump, he will say how high.

Absolutely I agree! However, (you knew there was going to be a "however" right?) when things get out of sync, isn't it better to take things into your own hands to get them back on track rather than sit back, feel sorry for yourself, and blame your partner for the failure of your marriage? The "My wife didn't wanna make whoopie last night so I'm not going to do anything for her today" mantality is what divorce attorney's thrive on. I know it goes both ways, but if you're the one who is having an issue, aren't you the one responsible for addressing it?

 

[chasekerion4]

Savage,

Good god, don't do any thing Dave Ramsey-ish....

Sorry Ramsey fans, I've only listened to this dude's radio show 3 times, but each time I get pissed that I lost yet another 3 hours of my life.

If you get a chance Savage, drop me a PM and tell me a little about your type of work experience and what you like to do. OR what you'd LIKE to do.

Indoor/Outdoor job? Shovel papers or get dirty?

I might have a few ideas for you...

 

[Boilers]

My compromise is I have no friends and absolutely no personal plans.
It's simple.

 

[public servant]

Absolutely I agree! However, (you knew there was going to be a "however" right?) when things get out of sync, isn't it better to take things into your own hands to get them back on track rather than sit back, feel sorry for yourself, and blame your partner for the failure of your marriage? The "My wife didn't wanna make whoopie last night so I'm not going to do anything for her today" mantality is what divorce attorney's thrive on. I know it goes both ways, but if you're the one who is having an issue, aren't you the one responsible for addressing it?

You're a woman...there is always a however...

 

[public servant]

Speaking of bad math, do any of your wives do this? You buy something for $1.25, she says it cost $2. She buys something for $1.99, she says it cost $1.

Or buy something...that you will never use...there is no reason to have it...to have ever had it...or that you would possibly ever, ever need it in the future..."but, it was on sale"...

 

[jennybird]

Or buy something...that you will never use...there is no reason to have it...to have ever had it...or that you would possibly ever, ever need it in the future..."but, it was on sale"...

How do you think we save money?

 

[hornadylnl]

Absolutely I agree! However, (you knew there was going to be a "however" right?) when things get out of sync, isn't it better to take things into your own hands to get them back on track rather than sit back, feel sorry for yourself, and blame your partner for the failure of your marriage? The "My wife didn't wanna make whoopie last night so I'm not going to do anything for her today" mantality is what divorce attorney's thrive on. I know it goes both ways, but if you're the one who is having an issue, aren't you the one responsible for addressing it?

That issue is addressed in the Love and Respect series that I linked above. He explains who is supposed to be the one to fix the situation in the marriage when both say, I'm not going to do it, they are wrong.

The main point of the series is that women feel loved by showing them love. Men feel loved by showing them respect. You can get as lovey as you want to a man but it won't mean anything to him. Show him respect and he will feel loved. He says that men must love their wives unconditionally without question. Women must respect their husbands unconditionally, without question.

Unfortunately, one of the intended consequences of feminism is that they have destroyed the notion in our society that men deserve respect. It would be interesting to see how the percentage of divorce correlates to the rise of feminism.

 

[public servant]

How do you think we save money?

We could save more money by not purchasing things we have NO use for...even if it is "on sale". A cherry pitter??? Please...eat the damn cherry and spit the pit out. (ok...no jokes) You buy cherries once a year!!!! $20 bucks??? Oh...it was "on sale" for $18? My bad... That makes ALL the difference in the world. We still you though...although at times... It's a good thing ya'll are all soft and warm and cuddly and smell so damn good. And having these doesn't hurt... (o)(o)

 

[jennybird]

We could save more money by not purchasing things we have NO use for...even if it is "on sale". A cherry pitter??? Please...eat the damn cherry and spit the pit out. (ok...no jokes) You buy cherries once a year!!!! $20 bucks??? Oh...it was "on sale" for $18? My bad... That makes ALL the difference in the world. We still you though...although at times... It's a good thing ya'll are all soft and warm and cuddly and smell so damn good. And having these doesn't hurt... (o)(o)

Funny thing... I actually hate shopping. Yes, you read that right. On sale? Doesn't mean a thing to me. Half the fun of cherries is seeing how far you can spit the pits... it's like a bullet for your mouth.

 

[Cwood]

This conversation has degenerated into subjects that I must resist from commenting on.

 

[public servant]

This conversation has degenerated into subjects that I must resist from commenting on.

Yeah...I...ummm... Nevermind...

 

[SavageEagle]

My compromise is I have no friends and absolutely no personal plans.
It's simple.

Tried that. Can't do it. Although all my friends just happen to be on here...

Or buy something...that you will never use...there is no reason to have it...to have ever had it...or that you would possibly ever, ever need it in the future..."but, it was on sale"...

Like a purse or shoes that never get used. Or maybe some bag for trash to be used in the van that becomes the kids' toy bag in the house. Or a book that never gets read about some guy and some girl and someone who got killed. Or... nvm, this could go on and on and on...

How do you think we save money?

By giving it to me and me putting it in my safe... Screw banks.

Yeah...I...ummm... Nevermind...

Yea, um, what happened to my thread? This was about MY problems. Not yours. Mine. Now go away. J/K

Seriously, J/K. Carry on.

 

[public servant]

...all my friends just happen to be on here...

You need to start hanging out with a better class of people.

Yea, um, what happened to my thread? This was about MY problems. Not yours. Mine. Now go away. J/K

We solved your problem...now we're working on mine!!

 

[Benny]

You need to start hanging out with a better class of people.




We solved your problem...now we're working on mine!!

You're hopeless dude, stop wasting your time and give up.

 

[SavageEagle]

You need to start hanging out with a better class of people.




We solved your problem...now we're working on mine!!

You're hopeless dude, stop wasting your time and give up.

 

[2ADMNLOVER]

Short answer , YES ! You are that bad at math !

 

[IndyParts]

I prefer the whatever I say goes approach.

It has worked out very well for me.

So how is the single life?