SavageEagle
Grandmaster
- Apr 27, 2008
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Come on, guy. None of us are "perfect", but she married you, Knucklehead, and wasn't it her idea? I'm figuring she didn't marry you for your money, huh?
Sigh. This is what the absolute love of money gets us. "Romantic" and money don't have to have that much in common. My wife and I used to pack a picnic basket, and go swimming at a creek that had a nice little sandbar at it. All by ourselves, laying on the sand, and talking about the things we wanted to do. We fried chicken, made tea and 'tater salad. Didn't need to go to Ruth's Chris to be romantic, and we still don't. Neither do you. Remember, it's the thought that counts the most.
I know you'll learn this later on, but a guy's job isn't just about the money. You provide a service somebody wants. You do (or can do) something worthwhile, and when you do that something right, and competently, there's a huge measure of self respect that goes along with that. The money's important, but really deep down it's just the meringue on top of the blackberry pie. Your satisfaction in doing a good job isn't measured by a per hour amount, but never discount how much it's really worth. If you hand dig a ditch that's square and clean and straight and of the correct depth, that's something to be proud of.
Once again, a written Dave Ramsey type budget is the way to stop those "unplanned" bills. It has to be in writing, so it's harder to fudge on, and promise "to do better on later", in which "later" never comes. Put it on paper, and you have half of the problem whipped right then. The root of your problems is you're spending more than you're making. Be honest with yourself.
I hope you're kidding about the "locked down for life" stuff. If you feel like that in the smallest amount, I don't know what to tell you.
Wow, yea, let me collect my thoughts....
No she definately didn't marry me for my money. Actually she's said because I'm a good father, I took care of hers and loved her where no one else wanted a premade family, and because I'm handsome. I can agree with all but the latter.
As far as date night, well, it's not about money as much as it is about time. There's never enough time with everything we are constantly doing. Who needs a rat race when you have a home race! LoL I'm open about my life, but somethings are best left unsaid. Unless you care about how much underwear we do on a weekly basis...
The working for nothing, but satisfaction and what not... That's why I've dedicated myself to the Tea Party and being actively involved with them as much as possible. I get a sense of accomplishment with every victory we gain. That usually comes in the revolution of some persons mind that finally see's the light. I don't get paid for it, but it gives more than money. Which doesn't mean i'm NOT actively looking for work. I am, but with a record that's less than a decade old and a job history that's even longer than, well, anyway. It's hard to find a good job. I am working dilegently to get my Class A or B CDL. Which is why I haven't gotten any firearms training. Saving for that and a place to live is hard enough...
I said the "Locked down for life" statement as sarcasim. That's not how I really feel. Well. Maybe once in a blue moon, but blue moons are pretty darn rare. Either way.
I still think it's just God testing my faith and my vows. Man, can God be cruel sometimes, or what?