steveh_131
While I can not nor will not give details on a public forum, The circumstances will never allow me to forgive or forget so it would be wasted time trying.....I`ll leave it at that
Rick
... BEAT HIS ASS! Someone needs to teach him a lesson in life that you dont mess with another mans wife. BEAT IT REAL GOOD! ...
steveh_131
While I can not nor will not give details on a public forum, The circumstances will never allow me to forgive or forget so it would be wasted time trying.....I`ll leave it at that
Rick
I read it, I saw what he said. I was asking why it wasn't an option and encouraging him to consider it further.
He asked for advice, that's mine. Don't give up.
PS On the bright side, at this weekend's 1500 I purchased a CZ Rami and on the way home I bought an antique rocking chair. There was no one to tell me I couldn't. Being single has advantages.
well this some good Hateful but honestly true advise EXCEPT the Beating ANYBODY this will do nothing but complicate the whole matter and it will make you have a criminal record AGAIN DONT HIT OR HARM ANYBODYFirst rule.... The element of suprise is your friend. Dont threaten (AKA: WARN) anything. Just do it and let her find out after you have already done it. Second... BEAT HIS ASS! Someone needs to teach him a lesson in life that you dont mess with another mans wife. BEAT IT REAL GOOD! Im not here to bash on women but they are absolute wild crazed animals when it comes time to pay the piper in a divorce. She will lie and steal (She already cheated so...) to get you to believe what she wants you to believe before, during AND after the divorce.I wouldnt even warn her what is coming and wouldnt even tell her that you have lawyered up...NO WARNINGS!Get your stuff out of the house without her knowing until after all your stuff that you dont want sold is out of there! Cancel ALL credit cards! Cancel all debit cards. If you have direct deposit, change it to a new account that is in your name only! Hide all titles (out of the house) even if only her name is on them and dont give them up until lawyer or a judge tells you to!Any stocks, etc. with both your names on them.... SELL THEM! Cash them out! Move money where she cannot get to it!Remember! Half of zero is still zero. Get it now before she does!
This very bad advise. ^^^
The OP (or anyone else) should not listen to this foolishness. As mentioned above, assuming you lived through attacking the exes BF, assault/battery conviction could play havoc with your settlement and will change your ability to defend yourself in the future.
To start with he dont have to beat the guy to death right now......he can wait. Secondly, he dont have to beat the guy himself.....there are plenty of people who will do it for you. Make sure you are in a highly visible place with cameras.