Whatever you do and however long it takes, find a way to forgive her.
That doesn't necessarily mean you take her back, but don't carry anger and bitterness for the rest of your life.
I`m not going to post too much personal stuff on the interwebs, Just a simple question.
For those of you that have been thru it, How do/did you deal with it ? (Wife caught cheating)
And I don`t drink, so that`s out
Rick
Whatever you do and however long it takes, find a way to forgive her.
That doesn't necessarily mean you take her back, but don't carry anger and bitterness for the rest of your life.
I don't care what anyone says, if she's cheated on you, she's probably done it more than you know and she WILL do it again.
Get a Lawyer and move forward. Cover your A$$ in every aspect of this no matter what she says.
Ok, since it's over and no kids, get what you can to a safe place where she can't get to it. I was doing that in preparation for a divorce when my first wife checked out. A judge may order you to fork some of it over, but keep it under your control. You can trust yourself better than you can her. I know it's something that means a lot to you after 25 years, but you have to be able to just shut it off. Flip the switch. I had a few long term relationships between marriages, and the last one ended hard. She's tried a couple of times, but I've kept to no contact, and once the shock wore off, it's kept me sane. Heck, a couple of others kept after me. That's what you should do (in my opinion), just to keep your own mind straight. We've both married since then, and I don't know about her, but I'm quite confident I have the right one at last.
Get a Lawyer................................"NOW"
Trust me.........They opened at 9, I walked in the door at 9:01
That's the most ignorant statement made in this thread
Got'a go wth the Moses dude on this'n.....I've lived it....and PAY'd for it....TWICE'd.....they could'n stay out the bars, or keep they thongs on......That's the most ignorant statement made in this thread
Trust me.........They opened at 9, I walked in the door at 9:01