Being a father does not make me place blame on the victim rather than the attacker. What it DOES do is reinforce how important it is to teach your children to not engage in fighting. The other person just might have a gun.
So can we blame women who shoot someone trying to rape them because had they not worn sexy clothing the man never would have tried to rape them?
So can we blame women who shoot someone trying to rape them because had they not worn sexy clothing the man never would have tried to rape them?