So....now I need a gun for her. She has not shot very much. I am thinking Bodyguard .380 or Kahr .380.
First off I am sorry about the loss of your friend… If your wife is interested in these guns, I think the Kahr is a great choice here! And if you're spending P380 level dough I would have to encourage you to look at the sig p238 and p938 models, while it is a completely different style gun which may "create" other issues in your mind. They are much easier to operate the slide than other pistols of this size, and are just fantastic little pistols… Good luck and I hope she picks something you like as well!