alwalker84 said:...after she returned to her moms house yesterday evening of course she interrogated her like Gibbs off of NCIS on what we did this weekend.
are you kidding I have taken my 3 year old son in Bradis before.. and he was like
"Dad!!! Look at all the boom booms"!!!!! Me and the guy behind the counter started cracking up...
TBH, the letter from momma seemed like an attempt to document something. My first impression. I've seen crazier things done to sway judgement's by others.
Yea there was another kid in there with his dad and he seemed to be about the same age.
Knowing her, this could quite honestly be true. It would not be there 1st time...I dont know how that slipped my mind. Ill give you a clue though...she so graciously managed to convince the courts that she needs $755 a month in child support for my ONE daughter...
roughly $200 bucks a week, about standard for 1 kid these days
I'll tell you what I'd do.
While your daughter is with you, it is YOUR'S/HER time. Her mother cannot tell you what to do with that time.
Well, actually she can. Maybe she shouldn't, but that hasn't stopped some from trying. And if you turn the tables, I'm sure there are more than a few activities dads (generically) may not want moms to do with the kids.
Personally, OP, I'd sign her up for an Eddie Eagle safety program and then look for organized group shoots, like 4H. And then I'd probably take her shooting anyway. If the wifey wants to spend her money to force the issue, more power to her. But I don't have all the information and I don't have to walk in your shoes. So it's easy for me to say that.
You could always dig up the articles of the 5 year old boy who shot the aliigator in texas or the 9 year old girl (give or take a year or so) who protected herself and her brother with momma's handgun when the bad guys bust into their apartment to do bad things. I think that one happened in New York, at least out east for sure. If they hadn't been taught how to use firearms, where would they be?
ETA: link to Texas story. I don't remember enough details about the other one to find it. Sorry.
5-Year-Old Shoots Giant Alligator | MyFoxHouston.com
Knowing her, this could quite honestly be true. It would not be there 1st time...I dont know how that slipped my mind. Ill give you a clue though...she so graciously managed to convince the courts that she needs $755 a month in child support for my ONE daughter...
gun, mussel loader , pistol etcAl, my kids mom was the same way, I recommend signing your daughter up for 4H shooting sports next summer. 4H in Marion County starts them off with air guns the first year then they move up to small bore and shotgun after that. Keep up the good work with your child, you are doing her a great service by teaching her gun safety at her age.
I have my opinion, but I dont want the thread to get derailed...
gun, mussel loader , pistol etc
I totally agree with this, I am a 4H shotgun instructor and have actually seen single Moms bring sons and daughters to shoot. I would let her know this way she will be taught with trained professionals arround some kids her own age.
Also point out she will have to pass Hunter Ed wich is 12 hours and a test. Then take a discipline, shot gun, pistole etc. and pass another test.
Another ieda is to have her take archery in 4h, it gets her in the program but not with a gun. By the way we have had 11 year old girls shoot a 20 ga youth beretta auto loader at the funday.... what county are you in???????