my daughters both have multiple tats, both where they can be covered for professional reasons. Oldest got her first one when she lived at home, I didn't care. School and work and I wasn't supporting her other than a roof. youngest got hers once she was out on her own.
Whether we like it or not, they are adults at some point. we may disapprove of things they do, but we can't stop them. Raise them with the right tools to make wise decisions on their own. How they use those tools when they are an adult is up to them. We just hope they use them wisely.
And she's probably still crying about you!At least it's not on his neck!! I broke my moms heart when I got my first one. I was 16. She cried for days.
My 18 year old came in with a tat I looked at it then looked at him and told if he could afford a tat he could afford rent!! $50.00 bucks a week! no more tats!
I certainly gave my saintly mother many reasons to cry about! Now shut the **** up and give a hug!And she's probably still crying about you!