I understand the OP. Imagine a class in HomeEc where every once and awhile the students would be asked to stand and quickly fold some linen in order to show they could do it. But instead of normal linen this was the stars and bars.
In that case, something special, something with special rules about it's treatment, was in fact not being treated accordingly. As a result, some would refuse to participate out of respect for the special thing, not out of defiance of the teacher.
That is how I read this boy and his supportive father.
Now he is going to take flack for the other reason to refuse: defiance of the teacher and her presumed "intent". Many of the posters here are reacting to whether there is intent, or if we should presume intent, or if our presumptions are related to a culture and political war with our loss of American identity in the face of a Mexican invasion, etc.
But, taking the OP at his word, the issue for his son is respect for the pledge. And I can respect that. The pledge is not a game, or a quote, or a nursery rhyme sung while jumping rope. It is something uniquely different and thus an item for special treatment and respect. And for that kid, it is not respected in this way.
So, I get it, and I bet something could easily be worked out with the teacher so long as she understand that there is no fight against her. Make her defensive and all gets hard. Help her see that she is dealing with a boy of conviction, and she should come around. And, BTW, have another thing he could recite in the pledge's place. And make it 10% more difficult than the original deal. It does not need to be The Ghettysburg Address or Charge of the Light Brigade, but you get the point.
Good job OP! That's a good kid you have there.
In that case, something special, something with special rules about it's treatment, was in fact not being treated accordingly. As a result, some would refuse to participate out of respect for the special thing, not out of defiance of the teacher.
That is how I read this boy and his supportive father.
Now he is going to take flack for the other reason to refuse: defiance of the teacher and her presumed "intent". Many of the posters here are reacting to whether there is intent, or if we should presume intent, or if our presumptions are related to a culture and political war with our loss of American identity in the face of a Mexican invasion, etc.
But, taking the OP at his word, the issue for his son is respect for the pledge. And I can respect that. The pledge is not a game, or a quote, or a nursery rhyme sung while jumping rope. It is something uniquely different and thus an item for special treatment and respect. And for that kid, it is not respected in this way.
So, I get it, and I bet something could easily be worked out with the teacher so long as she understand that there is no fight against her. Make her defensive and all gets hard. Help her see that she is dealing with a boy of conviction, and she should come around. And, BTW, have another thing he could recite in the pledge's place. And make it 10% more difficult than the original deal. It does not need to be The Ghettysburg Address or Charge of the Light Brigade, but you get the point.
Good job OP! That's a good kid you have there.