we have OUR checking account and MY checking account. He has no idea how much is in either account
This would make my husband crazy. We are actually on each others accounts, but I don't think he has ever looked in my checkbook and I know he has never written a check out of my account. I write out of his to pay bills or if I am shopping and know it is going to be more than I have in mine to spend.
His is the account that most of the income goes into so I let him share with me.