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    MrsGungho

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    I've never treated a woman like that in my life....and here I sit alone. Life ain't fair. But then, I've known that all along. ;)

    we didn't start this way, and we won't end this way. I'll get the man back I married or I'll leave.
    I've changed too, so I can't say it's all him.
    Wish my big brother was more like you guys, sometimes I think you guys care more than he does. << that is saying you're like big brothers to me, and I love it!!
     

    churchmouse

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    same goes for you

    Thanks Mrs.G
    I know what it takes to get by in this mean old world.
    Mistreatment of others, taking for granted of others is not part of the discipline.
    I only know this for realizing my own short comings in my early life.
    I struggle to make up for that. Once laid down it is hard to remove.
    I have always pulled the cart just not real pleasant at times along the carts path.
    I am making those times right.
     

    Snapdragon

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    we didn't start this way, and we won't end this way. I'll get the man back I married or I'll leave.
    I've changed too, so I can't say it's all him.
    Wish my big brother was more like you guys, sometimes I think you guys care more than he does. << that is saying you're like big brothers to me, and I love it!!

    They're like big brothers to me too, only not in a Josh Duggar kind of way.

    (Unfortunately?)
     

    Snapdragon

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    I have my share of sins to atone for. None of them involved mistreatment of a woman. Anyway, glad it's getting better.

    :flasher:

    I don't think most people set out to be a-holes. They just get wrapped up in themselves and forget about others. Or am I giving people too much credit?
     

    churchmouse

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    I don't think most people set out to be a-holes. They just get wrapped up in themselves and forget about others. Or am I giving people too much credit?

    Maybe some folks (credit) but I have seen dozens of couples that got married for all the wrong reasons. I was a 2 time looser at that myself. When the realization of a mistake of that magnitude settles in we tend to get a bit testy.
     

    Snapdragon

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    Maybe some folks (credit) but I have seen dozens of couples that got married for all the wrong reasons. I was a 2 time looser at that myself. When the realization of a mistake of that magnitude settles in we tend to get a bit testy.

    That's the thing I'm starting to worry about now.. I don't want to screw things up at this stage in my life.
     

    churchmouse

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    That's the thing I'm starting to worry about now.. I don't want to screw things up at this stage in my life.

    Being further along in life we tend to have other reasons to seek companionship. Just see how it rills and "Try" not to put expectations into the relationship. Easier said than done I know.
    Let things develop and keep your eyes open. If it is the real deal you will know.
     

    Snapdragon

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    It sounds like you have found a great guy. Don't worry. I am rooting for you two.

    Thanks, Birds. :) Logistics will be the issue if we do decide to make things permanent. I have no intention of leaving Crown Point, and he's so invested in Lake Station (20 miles away) I would hate to expect him to leave. But I guess if it's worth it, we will have to compromise.
     

    Birds Away

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    Being further along in life we tend to have other reasons to seek companionship. Just see how it rills and "Try" not to put expectations into the relationship. Easier said than done I know.
    Let things develop and keep your eyes open. If it is the real deal you will know.
    Yep, expectations can be poison. just enjoy the ride :hehe: If you enjoy each other's company and are having fun then don't spend a bunch of time dissecting it. Just have a good time. :yesway:
     

    Snapdragon

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    Being further along in life we tend to have other reasons to seek companionship. Just see how it rills and "Try" not to put expectations into the relationship. Easier said than done I know.
    Let things develop and keep your eyes open. If it is the real deal you will know.

    Yep. Thanks. :)
     
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