Thanks klaus. I think it's the right decision too.glad to hear the boys' dad is willing to step up, you are stuck in a place where there are no perfect solutions, just ones that some suck less then others. You 2 have given this a fair shot and it doesn't really look like a long term solution. Even if you need to help them out financially it will still be money well spent and probably cheaper in the long run.( I fed 2 boys and their friends, and it ain't cheap )
good luck and I hope she can get her head wrapped around it
So far so good.DD, I hope you are a bit more relaxed today.