Where is a good place to build and maintain wealth?
Your concerns are very justified. The stock market only reached positive returns since 2000 just recently and is actually still negative when inflation adjusted. link
Inflation-adjusted returns (click image to expand):
Unfortunately, the stock market has been running through a series of bubbles with the dot-com bubble in 2000, the housing bubble in 2008, and a QE-driven bubble now. With the Fed holding bank-level interest rates at right around 0% (other interest rates are based on this), savings, CD and "safe" bond returns are negative vs. inflation. Basically, paper assets just aren't a great place to try and maintain/build wealth.