maybe i should have worded that differant. it wouldnt bother me for my parents to do that but anyone else it would. we dont have anything to do with my wifes family ( even longer story) and they couldnt care less about my daughter anyway so i dont have to worry about them.
Sad for the kids not to know love from all the family. We have some of that with my side. Probably why I try and fill up the gaps in the kids and grand kids lives.
Love them, show them and be there for them as it is the kids that matter the most. Nothing else is as important as the kids. If you have them, love and protect them as you see fit. Everything else is extra. JMHO