Whoever told you life was in any way "fair" sold you a bill of goods...
However, if you survey a random sample of people and give them the option of whether they like being alive, dead, or never born at all...I would think the "alive" answer would win by a large margin...I am sure even Goth kids, who revel in angst, when given a choice between the three would say "alive"....
Without life there can be no "Angst"