You are so right, Glueman. When I let someone else get my goat, I give up my control of myself to them. The dude that was arrested really makes me think. If he can that easily fly off the handle and stay out of control, he would be a good candidate for workplace violence, etc.Tailgaters used to infuriate me to no end. I would even shake my fist in front of the rearview mirror or tap the brakes a couple times before slamming them on. What I realized is that I was allow the tailgater to control me. If I am in the hammer lane it is because I need to pass someone in the right lane. If my lane is blocked I have no option but to wait until who ever is in front of me moves out of the way so that I can pass then resume my position in the right lane. If the person tailgating me thinks that they have the right to be in front of me and get angry because I won't give up a position that I had first "GET OVER IT" I will move over when I can and you can be on your merry way.
Life is too short to be controlled by inconsiderate people.