A hate crime is a thought crime. It's nothing but social legislation.
Actually, I'd like to know what you mean by weak woman also. Didn't I read there were 4 of them? I don't consider myself a weak woman. I have a black belt in karate. I've won International sparring championships and state championships. There were 4 of them and even if I had a gun on me, who knows. I still may have suffered the same fate. I would like to think that I was aware of my surroundings and that I wouldn't have even let any guy get close to me let a lone 4 of them. But you never know...
I don't think you meant weak woman though... maybe you meant someone now aware of her surroundings...
I say that "sexual orientation" would be a better term. "Sexual preference" implies that it's a choice. I don't believe that it is. There's little doubt in my mind that homosexuality or heterosexuality is genetic.
I usually agree with most of your posts, but this is where I draw the line.
NOBODY will EVER convince me that "sexual preference" is genetic in any way, shape,or form. And I don't care how anybody wants to try to explain it away!!!!
NOBODY was EVER "born gay"!
Nobody will EVER be born gay!
It is totally and only a choice!
I say that "sexual orientation" would be a better term. "Sexual preference" implies that it's a choice. I don't believe that it is. There's little doubt in my mind that homosexuality or heterosexuality is genetic.
I disagree.
Can all sexual deviation be genetic?
Pedophilia?
Bestiality?
Fetishism?
Transvestitism?
Etc.....
These are sexual choices and desires outside the norm. So instead of making those who exercise these choices stand out, they call it genetic so they don't feel abnormal.
That makes it OK because their choice is not their fault, it is beyond their control and how dare you question it.
So it's fathomable that you could choose to look at a man's hairy ass and find love? I know I couldn't. Why? Because I'm genetically programmed to be a heterosexual.
I'm not saying that it's NORMAL. But it's pretty obvious, if you've ever spent any time around a gay person, that they are just different. Gay people report knowing that they are different from an early age, even before they have a clue what sexual orientation is. It's clearly a function of how the mind works, or genetic programming. Babies are born with all sorts of different conditions all of the time (autism, down syndrome, etc.) Some of these conditions are readily apparent at birth, and some only manifest themselves later in life. (mental illness, genetic defects, etc.) I believe that homosexuality is much along these lines. It's not normal, because heterosexuality is what is necessary for the procreation of the species in the natural sense, but it's not something that should be cause for hatred or discrimination.
Based on that thought process how do you square that with Bi-sexuals?
So it's fathomable that you could choose to look at a man's hairy ass and find love? I know I couldn't. Why? Because I'm genetically programmed to be a heterosexual.
I'm not saying that it's NORMAL. But it's pretty obvious, if you've ever spent any time around a gay person, that they are just different. Gay people report knowing that they are different from an early age, even before they have a clue what sexual orientation is. It's clearly a function of how the mind works, or genetic programming. Babies are born with all sorts of different conditions all of the time (autism, down syndrome, etc.) Some of these conditions are readily apparent at birth, and some only manifest themselves later in life. (mental illness, genetic defects, etc.) I believe that homosexuality is much along these lines. It's not normal, because heterosexuality is what is necessary for the procreation of the species in the natural sense, but it's not something that should be cause for hatred or discrimination.
If only every possible deviation of human behavior could be "squared" into a neat little box, prepackaged for easy selection as a target of hatred, depending on what one's deity told them to hate. Ah, what an uncomplicated world it would be!
Being Agnostic I'm not told by others that I have to believe that a certain behaviour is sinful and therefore I should oppose it
People are usually born right-handed. A small, but significant percentage are born left-handed. An even smaller minority is ambidextrous. That proves to me that there are genetic predispositions to behavior. Not everything is determined at birth....I believe that some behaviors are developed in early childhood (the formative years). But it is clear that some of the most BASIC behaviors are predetermined. And if there is anything that is basic in humans it is the sex drive.
Proof is a hard thing to come by.
As far as your other post mentioning pedophilia, bestiality, etc.....those are all certainly deviations from the norm. They have nothing to do with basic sexual orientation, however. They are deviant sexual behaviors, period, regardless of what the orientation is.
I'm not sure I'm following you here? Are you suggesting that the only sexual orientation is either Hetero or Homosexual? I would counter to say that it is about morals, living outside of the established norm is what drives some people in thier sex drive. That is what causes these perversions. Some people will have sex with anybody or anything. Is that not their orientation?
Behavior that is damaging to others should be against the law, and should be punished. (ie: pedophilia) Regardless of the strength of the primal sexual urge in humans, whether genetic or developed through experience or trauma, adults are responsible for their choices and should be punished for acts that harm others. It's interesting to note that there are both heterosexual and homosexual child molesters. Should one be punished more harshly than the other, or should they both be punished equally for harming the child?
Punished the same, as we are talking here about rape
Homosexuality is a behavior that, while not normal, is between two consenting adults and, while it may offend your sensibilities, it does not directly harm you. I'm not saying I want it to end. I'm suggesting that it is a choice and as long as special protections are not developed for that choice, I could care less what two, three, four or five consenting adults do in the privacy of their homes. There is deviancy in both heterosexuals and homosexuals, and I don't think that either should be celebrated in society. But I believe that basic sexual orientation is ingrained, and to deny a person basic human rights because of sexual orientation is wrong.
I don't think I've suggested denying anyone any rights. They just don't qualify for special rights.
By the way, to get back on track.....I don't agree with hate crime legislation. A crime is a crime, period. A raped woman is a victim, no matter what the perpetrator was "thinking" at the time. Punishing people for their thoughts is a dangerous road to go down....