Sure you aren't. That kind of "ok go ahead but if you get killed or paralyzed don't come whining to me" stuff is never a passive-aggressive threat. Sure.
There's a big difference between threatening somebody and not giving a **** if they do stupid things and get themselves killed.
I'm not defensive at all. You just keep mentioning death and paralysis as if it is a likely outcome of riding a bicycle on the street, when it is fact not likely at all. I make the choice to ride every day and I have a far better understanding of the 'dangers' of cycling than some guy who goes everywhere in a car and complains about the incredible inconvenience of having to share the road with other modes of transportation.
You are more likely to hurt yourself while typing than I am to have an accident on a bicycle, you'd do well to remember that.
Death or paralysis is a likely eventual outcome of riding like an asshat. I don't complain about sharing the roads. I complain about asshats, whether they be on a bicycle, in a car, or driving that 18-wheeler 2 feet off somebody's rear bumper instead of passing them.
So you're invincible, huh? You're such a good rider that you're never going to have an accident? Good luck with that. I've seen a lot of people over the years die or end up seriously injured because they grew complacent, thinking it wouldn't happen to them. And the smaller your vehicle, the more defensive you need to be. But hey... you don't need to hear that ... it'll NEVER happen to YOU.