I Always go to the Alexandria show and the Tipton show. I used to do the
muncie show but the lighting is poor. I normally go to a 1500 once a year. I used to go to the 1500 every show but just got burnt out on it.
From a collector standpoint all shows have promise but few have anything I must have. I have had good luck at Alexandria in the past and have spent much more their than the 1500.
I know EXACTLY where you are coming from. I am also REAL burned out on the 1500. If you get there 2 hours before opening, and move FAST, you can see most of the tables before the mobs hit. I also like Alexandra, Tipton, Kokomo, Lafayette, and Muncie. You can look at your pace for the gems without getting mobbed. The smaller shows also give you a chance to run into other 'gun show rats.' )