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To echo, again, what others have said; DO. NOT. SELL. HER. PROPERTY.
- It is a bad idea to consider selling it
- It is a terrible idea to decide to sell it
- It is an atrocious decision to post that you are selling it on an internet forum
You have other alternatives like dropping it off at her mother's house in her absence, passing it to an agreed upon mutual friend, mailing it, etc.
burt gummer
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Well it's stuff I got for her and she didn't take it with her because it's video games that I got her and she doesn't have the system to play them, that's why she kept them at my place so why shouldn't I get some of my money back,
indiucky
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No......No....No.....And quit posting things......Find a bartender and share all of this with him/her but quit airing dirty laundry out on an internet forum...For Pete's sake that's what bar stools and bourbon shots are for...
And if she offers you an apology hummer DO NOT LET HER PUT WEE WILLIE WONKA ANYWHERE NEAR HER MOLARS OR CANINES....
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indiucky
Grandmaster
"kill da wabbit...kill de wabbit...Kill de wabbit..."
Wait a minute...Did someone steal your wallet???? Because this thread is heading there...I have seen it before....
That could work. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
BG....at the risk of being rude you are just not walking in the same world we are.
Just not.
Maybe you need to just do as you have been and if crazy catches you the lessons imparted might actually sink in.
Beyond that.......Stop posting. For your own good.
If you do not listen we will all be laughing at you if and when the hammer drops...Not my hammer, the one you seem to live under.
Just not.
Maybe you need to just do as you have been and if crazy catches you the lessons imparted might actually sink in.
Beyond that.......Stop posting. For your own good.
If you do not listen we will all be laughing at you if and when the hammer drops...Not my hammer, the one you seem to live under.
AngryRooster
Master
Because once a gift is given it's no longer yours, it belongs to the person that it was given to. I sense you thrive on drama. I don't, never could stand it. One last word of advice. Read 1 Corinthians 13:11.
As for me...
Dude. You told me alot about her back when u worked with me that day. She's freaking looney tunes. Listen to these guys. Seriously. Freaking listen. They've been thru this stuff many more times than you have.
The above advice is solid as hell. Like granite. Scratch that.....diamond. Ron Jeremy's cock kinda solid.
Give the **** back to her mom. That way you are the bigger person.
Lose her number.
Don't look back.
Listen to these folks. They know. I've been there too. Trust me....you need to bail.
The above advice is solid as hell. Like granite. Scratch that.....diamond. Ron Jeremy's cock kinda solid.
Give the **** back to her mom. That way you are the bigger person.
Lose her number.
Don't look back.
Listen to these folks. They know. I've been there too. Trust me....you need to bail.
Because it does not matter that you bought the items. What matters is that you gifted them to her. Those items are her property, and are hers to decide what to do with. Selling them/destroying them/transferring them to another/etc. without her express permission is a bad idea, and may open you to criminal and civil liability. At this point even if you had her express permission I still would not do it.
I am going to be blunt, a lot of the issues you are having are coming from looking without leaping. Start thinking and not just reacting to events.
Leap 1. You got involved with someone who appears to have some significant personal issues
Leap 2. You posted on a forum for anyone to read (including your now ex) that you intend to take property that you know does not belong to you and sell it.
Respectfully, while she has issues that require the intervention of medically skilled professionals there are some areas of your life that you may wish to develop to prevent you making similar mistakes going forward.
Women are always admonished that they cannot help or change men, and that they shouldn't get (or stay) in a relationship in the hope that they can do so. The same is true for men. You are in a no-win situation in a one-sided relationship. She has to want, and decide, to get the help that she needs. Very likely, she will not do so, as long as she has you as her crutch/enabler/scapegoat. Even what happened as you described in your OP could have resulted in you going to jail or losing your firearm rights, if she had decided to involve the police, claim that you assaulted her - or even if she merely decided to take out a protective order. And that's probably the *least* of what you risk facing by staying in such a relationship. My advice would be to establish healthy distance and boundaries, unless AND UNTIL she gets the help that she needs. You may or may not be there for her when that happens, but I can all but guarantee that she will never be there for you, in her current state.
CameraMonkey, I've been having this same problem, but only at INGO. It started happening a week or two ago. I wonder if it is a Chrome thing?
I think I'll try another browser, and see if it happens there, too.
I've been reading The Gift Of Fear (thank you for the recommendation), and some of GdB's words of admonishment to women in abusive relationships absolutely apply here. Staying is a choice. Leaving is a choice. The consequences that result are the responsibility of the one who makes the choice.
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