Then I would first discuss it with a trusted family memeber or clergy member. Most people I know had no doubts when it was time to end the marriage. Good luck, I hope it works out for the best for you.Not a drinker. Just a God fearing, hard working man. Thanks for the advice.
Sorry brother, that sucks. Get a GOOD attorney, and don't trust the other party to do anything they say they will. If you are a drinker, stop for a while. Do NOT leave her, or the marital home before having her served with papers.
Good thinking there, thanks for that.Just like this man said, also anything she promises get it in writing. A piece of paper with her signature on it has a lot of weight in court. I would also think that if you have guns in the house, get them out! If you get into an argument, she could easily say that you threatened her with them and then you have more problems.
I'm sorry that you are going through this.
THIS.I would also think that if you have guns in the house, get them out! If you get into an argument, she could easily say that you threatened her with them and then you have more problems.
According to my ex wife, I'm a combination of Hitler and Satan. I know for a fact she talks about how horrible I am to anyone who will listen, I just ignore it, and sometimes laugh about it. We've been divorced for almost 9 years, I'm now married to an awesome woman, my kids would rather spend their time with me than their mom , and she's on her 3rd husband since we split up. Karma is a real *****, and watching my ex dwell on her bitterness is sad, but in a strange way, satisfying, given her history.I often thought about getting Facebook so I could read the garbage she writes on ther about me. But I haven't because I know that would (probably) make me cause problems back. And I want to keep my "proper person" status good.
How do you know when its time? I think its my time. I live in a house of animosity, and I can't handle it anymore. Please help.
no, there was no infertility, that's a deal breaker).
Praying for you!