FYI Everyone who mentioned a Charity:
I don't pretend to speak for HD, but this charity organization was a big help to them a few months ago. Little Angel Gowns
He also mentioned to me that he was shocked to learn that there was a glaring lack of grief counseling on the south side of Indianapolis; especially a lack of one who can help young children deal with the loss of a sibling. May also want to consider a donation to a non-profit provider of that sort in your area.
Feel free to PM me to get HD's daughter's full name if you'd like to make a donation "in memory of".
Getting very very dusty in here. I need to fire the cleaning staff.