Well from how many of the "drag queen story hour" people have been arrested for kiddie porn or abusing kids...I'm about 99.9% convinced, from what I've seen first hand around the internet, that the whole trans thing revolves around normalizing pedophilia. All of it is drenched in trying to sexualize very young children.
I absolutely agree that the obsession with pushing sexuality on children is primarily coming from adults who are seeking sex with children. No child needs to be told they have to "choose their gender". No child needs to be given a little rubber dick to put down the front of their panties so they can feel like a boy. No child needs to be exposed to adult sexuality in any way, shape, or form.
There are people pushing this to virtue signal, there are people pushing this to obtain more social acceptance and normalization for their own sexual deviancy and delusion, but they are all playing into the hands of people who are already preying on kids and want to make it easier for them to prey on kids.