1911 COLT, yes COLT Series 80 enhanced from the early 90's.
It has been decided:
1911 COLT, yes COLT Series 80 enhanced from the early 90's.
If you're going on the cheaper end, go for a revover. 1911's are jam-o-matics on the cheap end of the spectrum and need to be broken in well in all cases. The wife(assuming) would be more comftorable with a revolver most likely due to the simpler manual of arms. Plus 357 is in your username.
A SN nightstand gun is NOT something to "tinker with".