Oh and the stuff hoosierdood said is true all seriousness. But it is a two way street.. i suggest be factious and play a game i call hello my name is "insert your name" whats yours.. but make her meet you or wait for you at a bar kinda thing.. and pretend to flirt with her and ask questions you already know.. and pretend to rediscover your wife.. depending on you time frame try to have two playful outings / dates a month at the least... especially if you dont do that... who cares of you already know everything..about her.. you have to be exciting still or else she will move on.. and well frankly unleas thats what you want.. and you might see more of her peach..