Second, despite any officer's high degree of responsibility to the public, their first responsibility is to make sure they are able to go home after their shift is over.
I disagree. The officer took, in some manner, an oath to uphold the Constitution & protect the public. Their duty to protect the public from harm is just as important as them protecting themselves. If they don't like that they may have to give their lives in the defense of the public then don't raise their hands.
Officer safety IS a valid concern but it shouldn't be the foremost concern. That's why most people respect the "jobs" that LEO's perform. It is a noble effort that asks a lot of them. OTOH, the reason a lot of people don't respect individual officers are that even among the "good ones" there is that underlying idea their safety is way more important than our rights.
I believe any responsible citizen should respect that. If I were an officer, I don't think I could just assume everything will be fine just because someone with a gun shows me a little pink piece of paper that came out of a copy machine. Finding out that little piece of paper was valid would help, but it guarantees nothing. Even if an officer appears to be being unreasonable in his confiscation of my weapon, I can't think of any scenario that would allow my resistance to have a positive outcome. If the officer was in the wrong, I'm sure I would have much better luck pursuing the matter later if my resistance were not a factor.
That's why we have to hold them to higher standards. They have immense power over us. On the side of the road they are the judge & jury & could be the executioner. In the courtroom, the judge & jury almosty unfailingly side with the officer unless there is unmistakable & overwhelming evidence of wrong-doing. Sometimes innocent people pay the price.
Any responsible citizen SHOULD respect that but any responsible officer SHOULD also respect the rights & safety of the citizens they took AN OATH to protect.
And what about the fact that the vast majority of people on traffic stops aren't deranged psychopaths hell-bent on murdering a cop. But many (probably the majority) use those incidents to justify (sometimes excessive) actions based on the "worst case scenario" for their safety but when a non-LEO bases their reaction to a LEO on the minority of bad cops (which if it is a bad cop could have far a reaching impact on the non-LEO's life as well) it is unreasonable & somehow an affront to their dignity.
Respect goes both ways.
Telling us that by using our right to remain silent gives a LEO PC or RAS for further investigation doesn't go very far in promoting leo/non-leo mutual respect.